Most will agree that one of the fundamentals to success in any area of life is the ability of how well you are able to manage relationships.

Relationship with yourself.

Relationship with your spouse.

Relationships with colleagues.

Relationships with friends.

Relationships with siblings.

Ultimately, relationship with the world.

What separates successful individuals is not necessarily where they got their education from or how high their IQ level is.

There are many people who have finished some of the best schools as well as having the highest IQs, but yet are still struggling to manage and create meaningful and lasting relationships.

Wether thats in their career or personal life.

I personally have many friends, who weren’t even close to getting good grades in high school, did not even attend college, and yet are way more “successful” than those who did.

How?

Their ability to manage relationships.

Of course, it is important to have fluid and quantitative reasoning as well as a well rounded knowledge of the world. But let me ask you, how do we best connect with one another?

Through sharing experiences of:

• Emotions

• Feelings

• Empathy

• Building rapport

These are just to name a few.

In order to connect with others we must connect with ourselves first.

Everything we experience and see in this world is only a projection of our own mental state.

Just think about it.

If someone grew up in a broken family, chances are their perception of a loving relationship is going to be completely different from someone who grew up in a family that knew how to communicate, showed respect for one another, and most importantly, did everything in a loving way.

Which leads us to the…

Primordial power of true success: fundamentals

As you continue to read this next part, try to take a few seconds and scan through your own life how certain experiences have shaped your relationship with this world.

Remember, there are 7.8 billion people in the world.

Lets say you know about 200 people in your life. Your view of life is more or less the same as the people you know.

To say that it can’t be a different way is complete nonsense.

Therefore, keep an open mind at all times. Or as they say in Buddhism, keep your cup empty.

We all experience a beginning point where we simply need guidance and some sort of a model. Whether thats relationships (personal or professional), careers, starting a business, sports, etc…

Most people follow some sort of an archetype.

If we dig a little deeper, the word archetype derives from the Latin noun archetypum whose adjective form is archetypos - which means “first-molded”, which is a compound of arche - beginning, origin, and typos - model, type.

This is very important to comprehend when it comes to the relationship you have with your parents.

Your mother and father.

The most primordial relationship when it comes to your parents is Father - God - through which “I” - soul exists, and Mother - Earth - through which you incarnated into the body that you are in today.

Your earthly parents are simply a reflection and the consequence of the unlearned lessons about your true Mother(Earth) and Father(God).

The relationship you have with your parents, your mom and your dad, is a reflection of the relationship you have with this world.

However you feel about your parents, for example you might feel like there is, or was lack of love, lack of acceptance, then that is what mother Earth and father God will provide you with…

We can only receive what we give.

In order to receive happiness, success, and true fulfillment in life, you have to start with reconnecting your love with your parents.

This is where true power lies.

In understanding the fundamentals to the basics of life and relationship you have with your parents, which reflects the relationship with your environment, universe, and the source itself.

It takes great courage and a lot of inner power to realize and accept your parents for who they are.

If you read any of my previous articles, you know that life is simply a set of programs, which have been installed unconsciously (for most).

Once you attain that level of understanding, you are then able to accept your parents.

No matter how much pain you might have endured as a kid or adult, you begin to realize that they did the best they could or knew how, based on their level of awareness (the programs that were installed in them).

This is where you take your life into your own hands.

To accept the great primordial power, you must accept fundamental bond between yourself, your parents, and this world.

You achieve this by doing the Ho’oponopono - (making things right) method.

It is a powerful mantra for giving you a clean slate:

I am sorry

Forgive me

Thank you

I love you.

Find a few minutes during the day to sit down, close your eyes, and see your parents in your minds eye (this also works for any other relationship(s) you want to improve, strengthen, or heal).

1. “I am sorry” is the first step in admitting and taking responsibility for anything that has ever happened to you, or anything wrong that you have witnessed.

The first step is about accepting the fact that all wrong things started within you.

2. “Forgive me” is asking for an apology from your parents (or any other person) symbolizing that you are asking for forgiveness from the universe.

No matter if you have wronged or not. We tend to interpret things our own way and sometimes our interpretations are out of context.

Therefore, asking for an apology is a cleansing and healing method that removes negativity and helps you move on in your life.

3. “Thank you” is gratitude which is a powerful emotion. Saying “thank you” (to your parents for bringing you into this life, because without them you wouldn’t be here) is also symbolizing gratitude to the universe (father God and mother Earth).

You can be thankful for the lessons learned, thankful for bringing awareness and change into your own life, and also be thankful to yourself, for taking your life into your own hands.

Gratitude brings a fresh air of positivity.

4. Say “I love you” to your parents, to God, to Earth, to yourself, to your surroundings.

Love is a powerful emotion that accelerates the healing process.

It’s recommended to practice this method for a minimum of 45 days in a row if you want maximum transformation.

Repeating the mantra four times would be considered one round. Start with 4 rounds and as you continue slowly work your way up.

It is important to not skip a day when doing the 45 day practice.

If you cant do four rounds on certain days, sit down for at least one round. Its about consistency.

What can you expect from this practice?

First of all, a deeper concentration if you are already a practitioner of meditation. If you are a beginner, you will notice a great sense of calmness, appreciation, and a sense of gratefulness.

It will get rid of the clogs within your psychic and mental planes.

Reciting these words will reprogram your subconscious mind.

In return, you will begin to see the world with a more loving heart. Your relationships will transform. People that no longer serve you will leave and those who are meant to enhance your life will appear.

Ultimately, this practice will help you understand yourself better.

It is a great road to self actualization and the inner peace that most people are longing.

Have fun!!!

Enjoy the ride!!!

And watch your life transform within days!!!